I heard it again the other day. It was said in an effort to encourage someone suffering from clinical depression.
“God won’t give you more than you can handle.”
It’s not scriptural; it’s not biblical; it’s not even true. Yet I’ve heard it said to parents mourning the loss of a baby; to a mother whose child has turned from following the Lord; to children who found their parent had a terminal illness; to a husband whose wife had been unfaithful.
In each instance, the person saying it was trying to be helpful.
In each instance, it fell far short.